I'd like to share with you the truth about getting the body you've always wanted but I'm going to warn you, you may not like the answer. If you're anything like me you're tired of marketing ads telling you to take a magic pill or to buy this new scientifically proven piece of gym equipment that guarantees results or your money back. I was tired too.
I bought the electroshock ab belt that turned into nothing more then a drinking game of who could crank it up to it's highest setting and keep it on the longest. I bought into supplements because the guy/ girl selling them had a perfect physique that I too wanted.
At some point if you want serious long lasting and healthy results you have to finally give in to the truth.
Secret #1: There is no secret.
There is no secret and you already know what to do. I was chatting with a trainer/ gym owner once who told me he couldn't believe the number of his clients who paid for his services. He told me he wasn't telling them anything they didn't already know and many times he would still have trouble getting them to do it. Here's the formula [WORKOUT + CLEAN NUTRITION + CONSISTENCY = RESULTS] That's it.
(I don't want to dive into what 'clean nutrition' means since I have other blogs on that but basically if you have to question if it's healthy or not, it's not.)
If you want serious long lasting results you have to follow that formula. Stop trying to look for shortcuts or magic supplements and as Nike says, 'just do it.'
Secret #2: Stop cheating!
You are your own worst enemy when it comes to YOUR results (see cover image).
The fact is that trainers and nutritionists are with you for only an hour or two a day. It's the time they're not with you where things go wrong. You skip a workout because you're tired or you order a pizza because they're not around to give you that evil eye. It comes down to willpower and choice, and we're given too much of both sometimes.
Stop doing research on what the latest celebrity did to transform themselves for a role. Stop following these people in magazine ads and billboards advertising the latest juice, cleanse, or false promise. Do exactly what you know you need to do and have known for a long time. Workout and Eat Right. It's so simple it's somehow become hard.
I used to get so caught up in ingredient lists, macro nutrient ratios, and other terms I can't even remember now. The truth is if you're eating clean, those things don't really matter (please remember my disclaimer here.) Stop doing research and get out and move, and when your done moving, eat your vegetables! :)
Getting Results
Now that you've spent a few minutes reading what you've already known it's time to create a goal for yourself. Maybe it's to loose a few pounds or maybe it's a complete transformation. Either way remember secret #2 and DON'T CHEAT UNTIL YOU'VE REACHED YOUR GOAL. This is probably the hardest part of the equation and you're probably going to have to give up some social outings, parties and events to complete this step.
I know how hard this is because I'm guilty of it too. I'll have a great week, work out, eat right then Friday comes and I feel like having a drink or a cheat meal. I'll say things like I had a good week I DESERVE it; or the opposite, I had a tough week I DESERVE it. Or it's a holiday, or someone's birthday, or this event or that event either way I DESERVE it. Here's another secret; stop always looking for a reason to cheat.
Can someone please define DESERVE for me here? Which part of your body DESERVES to be filled with crap? Last time I checked your stomach, liver and kidneys (among others) don't like any of this stuff. Even your bank account hates it when you go out for food and/or drinks. Why do you DESERVE this food or drink, you haven't reached your goal yet? So no you don't DESERVE it. Reach your goal, then yes, you DESERVE it.
I know this approach may seem a little harsh but I truly want you to reach your goals. In this day in age where time is priceless we want results and we want them fast. Well like everything else that is worth while you're going to have to make some sacrifices.
Conclusion
I believe you're a smart person and know what needs to be done to get to your goals. I think we've hid behind this wall of pretending not to know or getting a thousand opinions before ever doing something that we're actually believing it ourselves now. It's easier to claim not to know something then admit you actually do know and you're just not willing to put in the work.
Now it's up to you and how long you want to take to reach your goal? You can set small goals, reach them, cheat a bit and get back on track (like most people) OR you can rip the band-aid right off and go in for the long haul of one, three, six or maybe even more months without cheating.
For me getting serious results is more of a scheduling issue and fighting off social events than anything else. If you fall into peer pressure easily try to stay away from major holidays and birthdays when scheduling your goals. Find a partner who is willing to help you stay on track. Also make sure when you have a goal you (for the time being) put it above some of your other priorities that can possibly throw you off track. I've found it's much easier to maintain a fit body then achieve it so put in the work now as long as you need to to reach your goals. Good luck!
- Wednesday, November 13, 2013
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